Coaching for conscious leadership.
Built on proven science and real-world experience, we leverage the Enneagram and emotional intelligence training to understand you, your motivations, and your goals.
Our coaches help leaders navigate challenges and drive measurable change across their organizations. Schedule a call with Shelley and discover a path customized for you.

Coaching for conscious leadership.
Built on proven science and real-world experience, we leverage the Enneagram and emotional intelligence training to understand you, your motivations, and your goals.
Our coaches help leaders navigate challenges and drive measurable change across their organizations. Schedule a call with Shelley and discover a path customized for you.

Coaching for conscious leadership.
Built on proven science and real-world experience, we leverage the Enneagram and emotional intelligence training to understand you, your motivations, and your goals.
Our coaches help leaders navigate challenges and drive measurable change across their organizations. Schedule a call with Shelley and discover a path customized for you.

You were born to lead.
We're here to help you do it boldly and decisively while staying true to who you are.
Our Offerings
01
Leadership Coaching
Our 1:1 leadership coaching sessions focus on building key emotional skills, giving you the space to deep dive into your strengths and growth areas. In just one hour, you will gain personalized insights and a clear, actionable plan to develop and apply your skills in real time.
02
Team Coaching
We specialize in team dynamics. With our team coaching platform, Emma, your entire team can know everyone's Enneagram communication style, as well as taking 360s and getting a Team Health Survey. For groups of 3-12, we have the tools you need.
03
Partner Coaching
When we work alongside other imperfect human beings, we are bound to experience some challenges along the way. They’re unavoidable. And when you see that they are affecting your relationships and team performance, it’s time to call in the professionals.
04
Midlife Coaching
The midlife passage presents plenty of transitional challenges, both professionally and personally. We help you identify the patterns and choices that brought you this far. Then we explore together what's working and what needs an update.
You were born to lead.
We're here to help you do it boldly and decisively while staying true to who you are.
Our Offerings
01
Leadership Coaching
Our 1:1 leadership coaching sessions focus on building key emotional skills, giving you the space to deep dive into your strengths and growth areas. In just one hour, you will gain personalized insights and a clear, actionable plan to develop and apply your skills in real time.
02
Team Coaching
We specialize in team dynamics. With our team coaching platform, Emma, your entire team can know everyone's Enneagram communication style, as well as taking 360s and getting a Team Health Survey. For groups of 3-12, we have the tools you need.
03
Partner Coaching
When we work alongside other imperfect human beings, we are bound to experience some challenges along the way. They’re unavoidable. And when you see that they are affecting your relationships and team performance, it’s time to call in the professionals.
04
Midlife Coaching
The midlife passage presents plenty of transitional challenges, both professionally and personally. We help you identify the patterns and choices that brought you this far. Then we explore together what's working and what needs an update.
You were born to lead.
We're here to help you do it boldly and decisively while staying true to who you are.
Our Offerings
01
Leadership Coaching
Our 1:1 leadership coaching sessions focus on building key emotional skills, giving you the space to deep dive into your strengths and growth areas. In just one hour, you will gain personalized insights and a clear, actionable plan to develop and apply your skills in real time.
02
Team Coaching
We specialize in team dynamics. With our team coaching platform, Emma, your entire team can know everyone's Enneagram communication style, as well as taking 360s and getting a Team Health Survey. For groups of 3-12, we have the tools you need.
03
Partner Coaching
When we work alongside other imperfect human beings, we are bound to experience some challenges along the way. They’re unavoidable. And when you see that they are affecting your relationships and team performance, it’s time to call in the professionals.
04
Midlife Coaching
The midlife passage presents plenty of transitional challenges, both professionally and personally. We help you identify the patterns and choices that brought you this far. Then we explore together what's working and what needs an update.
Big Self School Founders
Meet Dr. Shelley Prevost
Shelley is a licensed therapist, executive coach, angel investor, and TEDx speaker who left private practice in 2010 to dive into the startup world. Since then, she’s mentored or invested in nearly 100 early-stage companies—witnessing both extraordinary success and the heavy cost of burnout.
In 2014, she launched a tech company and led it until hitting a wall of profound exhaustion that changed everything. What followed was a deep journey into healing, purpose, and reconnecting with her true self.
In 2019, she co-founded Big Self School to turn those lessons into a powerful framework for growth. Today, she helps high achievers reset, build emotional resilience, and align their lives with who they truly are.
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Meet Dr. Chad Prevost
Chad Prevost, Ph.D., is the co-founder of Big Self School and serves as a coach and workshop facilitator. With a background as a professor of literature and creative writing, he brings a storyteller’s clarity to the complexities of leadership and personal growth. Chad is a twice-certified Enneagram practitioner, an LCP 360-certified coach, and an ICF-accredited executive coach (ACC).
He is the author of Shock Point: The Enneagram in Burnout and Stress and host of the Leading Human podcast, now with more than 280 episodes exploring emotional intelligence, leadership, and the future of work. In addition to coaching executives, founders, and mission-based leaders, Chad played a role in the development of Emma, a platform that helps teams measure and improve trust, communication, and resilience. His passion is helping leaders strengthen their inner game so they can thrive in their outer work.
Schedule to talk about a Workshop or Event

Meet Marta Gillilan
Marta Gillilan is a former teacher, pastor, spiritual director and community leader. She is adept at organizing and aligning diverse groups to achieve impactful outcomes, with an emphasis on the inner work of the leader and their impact on collective needs.

Meet Katherine Touhey
Katherine Touhey is a coach and educator who helps individuals and teams cultivate deeper connection with themselves and others. Drawing on the Enneagram alongside somatic practices, breathwork, and movement, she creates a dynamic coaching experience that fosters meaningful transformation, tailored to each client’s unique journey.

Meet Scott Allender
Scott Allender is an expert in global leadership and organizational development. He is a professionally certified enneagram teacher through CPEnneagram Academy, and a certified emotional intelligence coach. Scott regularly teaches enneagram workshops, conducts typing interviews and emotional intelligence assessments for individuals and teams who seek to become more radically self-aware and cognizant of the impact they have on the world.

Meet Jayson Morris
Jayson leverages 20+ years of experience in corporate, nonprofit, & philanthropic sectors combined with two decades of personal development and over 1000 hours of training in different coaching modalities to empower his clients and guide them toward new levels of professional and personal growth.
Big Self School Founders
Meet Dr. Shelley Prevost
Shelley is a licensed therapist, executive coach, angel investor, and TEDx speaker who left private practice in 2010 to dive into the startup world. Since then, she’s mentored or invested in nearly 100 early-stage companies—witnessing both extraordinary success and the heavy cost of burnout.
In 2014, she launched a tech company and led it until hitting a wall of profound exhaustion that changed everything. What followed was a deep journey into healing, purpose, and reconnecting with her true self.
In 2019, she co-founded Big Self School to turn those lessons into a powerful framework for growth. Today, she helps high achievers reset, build emotional resilience, and align their lives with who they truly are.
Get Coaching


Meet Dr. Chad Prevost
Chad Prevost, Ph.D., is the co-founder of Big Self School and serves as a coach and workshop facilitator. With a background as a professor of literature and creative writing, he brings a storyteller’s clarity to the complexities of leadership and personal growth. Chad is a twice-certified Enneagram practitioner, an LCP 360-certified coach, and an ICF-accredited executive coach (ACC).
He is the author of Shock Point: The Enneagram in Burnout and Stress and host of the Leading Human podcast, now with more than 280 episodes exploring emotional intelligence, leadership, and the future of work. In addition to coaching executives, founders, and mission-based leaders, Chad played a role in the development of Emma, a platform that helps teams measure and improve trust, communication, and resilience. His passion is helping leaders strengthen their inner game so they can thrive in their outer work.
Schedule to talk about a Workshop or Event

Meet Marta Gillilan
Marta Gillilan is a former teacher, pastor, spiritual director and community leader. She is adept at organizing and aligning diverse groups to achieve impactful outcomes, with an emphasis on the inner work of the leader and their impact on collective needs.

Meet Katherine Touhey
Katherine Touhey is a coach and educator who helps individuals and teams cultivate deeper connection with themselves and others. Drawing on the Enneagram alongside somatic practices, breathwork, and movement, she creates a dynamic coaching experience that fosters meaningful transformation, tailored to each client’s unique journey.

Meet Scott Allender
Scott Allender is an expert in global leadership and organizational development. He is a professionally certified enneagram teacher through CPEnneagram Academy, and a certified emotional intelligence coach. Scott regularly teaches enneagram workshops, conducts typing interviews and emotional intelligence assessments for individuals and teams who seek to become more radically self-aware and cognizant of the impact they have on the world.

Meet Jayson Morris
Jayson leverages 20+ years of experience in corporate, nonprofit, & philanthropic sectors combined with two decades of personal development and over 1000 hours of training in different coaching modalities to empower his clients and guide them toward new levels of professional and personal growth.
Big Self School Founders
Meet Dr. Shelley Prevost
Shelley is a licensed therapist, executive coach, angel investor, and TEDx speaker who left private practice in 2010 to dive into the startup world. Since then, she’s mentored or invested in nearly 100 early-stage companies—witnessing both extraordinary success and the heavy cost of burnout.
In 2014, she launched a tech company and led it until hitting a wall of profound exhaustion that changed everything. What followed was a deep journey into healing, purpose, and reconnecting with her true self.
In 2019, she co-founded Big Self School to turn those lessons into a powerful framework for growth. Today, she helps high achievers reset, build emotional resilience, and align their lives with who they truly are.
Get Coaching


Meet Dr. Chad Prevost
Chad Prevost, Ph.D., is the co-founder of Big Self School and serves as a coach and workshop facilitator. With a background as a professor of literature and creative writing, he brings a storyteller’s clarity to the complexities of leadership and personal growth. Chad is a twice-certified Enneagram practitioner, an LCP 360-certified coach, and an ICF-accredited executive coach (ACC).
He is the author of Shock Point: The Enneagram in Burnout and Stress and host of the Leading Human podcast, now with more than 280 episodes exploring emotional intelligence, leadership, and the future of work. In addition to coaching executives, founders, and mission-based leaders, Chad played a role in the development of Emma, a platform that helps teams measure and improve trust, communication, and resilience. His passion is helping leaders strengthen their inner game so they can thrive in their outer work.
Schedule to talk about a Workshop or Event

Meet Marta Gillilan
Marta Gillilan is a former teacher, pastor, spiritual director and community leader. She is adept at organizing and aligning diverse groups to achieve impactful outcomes, with an emphasis on the inner work of the leader and their impact on collective needs.

Meet Katherine Touhey
Katherine Touhey is a coach and educator who helps individuals and teams cultivate deeper connection with themselves and others. Drawing on the Enneagram alongside somatic practices, breathwork, and movement, she creates a dynamic coaching experience that fosters meaningful transformation, tailored to each client’s unique journey.

Meet Scott Allender
Scott Allender is an expert in global leadership and organizational development. He is a professionally certified enneagram teacher through CPEnneagram Academy, and a certified emotional intelligence coach. Scott regularly teaches enneagram workshops, conducts typing interviews and emotional intelligence assessments for individuals and teams who seek to become more radically self-aware and cognizant of the impact they have on the world.

Meet Jayson Morris
Jayson leverages 20+ years of experience in corporate, nonprofit, & philanthropic sectors combined with two decades of personal development and over 1000 hours of training in different coaching modalities to empower his clients and guide them toward new levels of professional and personal growth.
Built around psychology and human motivation
Our Approach
Our approach is rooted in an understanding of emotional intelligence and how this dictates behavior. You may believe it is our well-grounded logic that is in operation, but it's not. Emotions are in the driver's seat. Every organization faces different logistical or technical problems. We aren't consultants and we don’t solve your problems with a one-size-fits-all, outside-in framework.
We look “underneath the hood” for what the (often unconscious) human motivations and actions might actually be about. When it comes to envisioning the kind of place you want to work at–where you spend so much of your relational time and energy–this is the place to create a new reality that begins from the inside out.
Built around psychology and human motivation
Our Approach
Our approach is rooted in an understanding of emotional intelligence and how this dictates behavior. You may believe it is our well-grounded logic that is in operation, but it's not. Emotions are in the driver's seat. Every organization faces different logistical or technical problems. We aren't consultants and we don’t solve your problems with a one-size-fits-all, outside-in framework.
We look “underneath the hood” for what the (often unconscious) human motivations and actions might actually be about. When it comes to envisioning the kind of place you want to work at–where you spend so much of your relational time and energy–this is the place to create a new reality that begins from the inside out.
Built around psychology and human motivation
Our Approach
Our approach is rooted in an understanding of emotional intelligence and how this dictates behavior. You may believe it is our well-grounded logic that is in operation, but it's not. Emotions are in the driver's seat. Every organization faces different logistical or technical problems. We aren't consultants and we don’t solve your problems with a one-size-fits-all, outside-in framework.
We look “underneath the hood” for what the (often unconscious) human motivations and actions might actually be about. When it comes to envisioning the kind of place you want to work at–where you spend so much of your relational time and energy–this is the place to create a new reality that begins from the inside out.
Why you need a coach
Why you need a coach
Leading high-performing teams requires skills most leaders never learned in business school.
Improving your impact as a leader isn't something you can figure out alone. It's hard to assess your own communication patterns, identify blind spots, or recognize the subtle ways your leadership style might be limiting team performance.
Even when you're open to feedback and committed to growth, translating awareness into sustainable change is challenging. You need someone who can see the patterns you can't, and knows how to help you shift them.
Coaching is essential for team optimization. Our skilled coaches bring objectivity, proven frameworks, and experience that help you unlock leadership capabilities that directly translate to measurable team improvements. They can guide you to breakthrough moments that transform not just your effectiveness, but your entire team's performance.
We love working with teams.
Create a workplace culture where higher level communication is the norm—not the exception.
Why you need a coach
Why you need a coach
Leading high-performing teams requires skills most leaders never learned in business school.
Improving your impact as a leader isn't something you can figure out alone. It's hard to assess your own communication patterns, identify blind spots, or recognize the subtle ways your leadership style might be limiting team performance.
Even when you're open to feedback and committed to growth, translating awareness into sustainable change is challenging. You need someone who can see the patterns you can't, and knows how to help you shift them.
Coaching is essential for team optimization. Our skilled coaches bring objectivity, proven frameworks, and experience that help you unlock leadership capabilities that directly translate to measurable team improvements. They can guide you to breakthrough moments that transform not just your effectiveness, but your entire team's performance.
We love working with teams.
Create a workplace culture where higher level communication is the norm—not the exception.
Why you need a coach
Why you need a coach
Leading high-performing teams requires skills most leaders never learned in business school.
Improving your impact as a leader isn't something you can figure out alone. It's hard to assess your own communication patterns, identify blind spots, or recognize the subtle ways your leadership style might be limiting team performance.
Even when you're open to feedback and committed to growth, translating awareness into sustainable change is challenging. You need someone who can see the patterns you can't, and knows how to help you shift them.
Coaching is essential for team optimization. Our skilled coaches bring objectivity, proven frameworks, and experience that help you unlock leadership capabilities that directly translate to measurable team improvements. They can guide you to breakthrough moments that transform not just your effectiveness, but your entire team's performance.
We love working with teams.
Create a workplace culture where higher level communication is the norm—not the exception.